Why? Both extremes of the personality spectrum enable me to propel myself further faster and easier. Without these two extremes I wouldn’t be who I am now.

My ex was, and still is, a Narc living in Florida with a major well known Narc actually. We won’t delve into that….LOL . puke!

My former and now ex SP is a bliss ninny and therefore gets no where in his life.

Both ask for help simply to pull the rug you offer them out from underneath you leaving you on your ass.

In my current healing process I see this coming and remind myself that I need to focus on me solely and actually that’s all I’m doing even with the actors in my script. LOL .

My major lesson is always to keep focused on my own plate. I am not the Savior! LOL . Damn it!

You can avoid all you want. You can blame all you want. You never ever escape your self.